well, i (with a huge help from amanda) wrote a letter to shady grove radiology (the people that did the sonogram) explaining how we thought our visit was inappropriate. basically, since the tech didn't explain anything as she was doing the test (she barely spoke a few words during the whole thing), and didn't show us the the baby (as she said she was going to do), or how she knew it was a boy, and didn't explain the pictures that we received, they called and offered to do the sonogram over again. so we're getting another one done on tuesday. they also said they were going to have us back anyway because the report on the spine didn't come through, but i think this may be an excuse to cover their ass with the insurance company on why they have to do a second one. so this one will be with the med. director and his top sonographer. so we're pretty happy that we'll finally get the experience that everyone else had on their first visit.